Proverbs 17:28 (NLV)
Even a fool, when he keeps quiet,
is thought to be wise.
Proverbs 17:28 (NLV)
Even a fool, when he keeps quiet,
is thought to be wise.
Psalm 23:1-3 (NASB)
The Lord is my shepherd,
I will not be in need.
He lets me lie down in green pastures;
He leads me beside quiet waters.
He restores my soul.
O Lord, we live in a boisterous world overflowing with rushing water, flooding water, dirty water. You are the Prince of peace, leading us to green pastures and quiet waters. Thank You for room to breathe, room to think, room to rest. 
John 10:27 (NIV)
My sheep listen to my voice;
I know them, and they follow me.
It is best to learn to silence the faculties and to cause them to be still so that God may speak.
John of the Cross (1542-1591)
1 Peter 3:4 (NASB)
It should be the hidden person of the heart, with the imperishable quality of a gentle and quiet spirit, which is precious in the sight of God.
A quiet spirit–hésuchios in Hebrew, meaning tranquil, peaceful.
When your heart overflows with peace and tranquility, you don’t sweat the small stuff. 
We’re called to pray for those in authority …
1 Timothy 2:2 (NASB)
so that we may lead a tranquil and quiet life in all godliness and dignity.
Life seems anything but quiet. Tranquility, godliness and dignity are sorely lacking. It’s not a just a political problem, it’s a spiritual issue.
“The gracious discipline of mercy breaks the ships of our vainglory with a strong east wind, and casts us shipwrecked, naked and forlorn, upon the Rock of Ages.” —Charles Haddon Spurgeon (1834-1892)
There are many references in Scripture to self-discipline (self-control). I couldn’t find even one about self-punishment.
Apparently, punishment isn’t a DIY job. And that’s something to think about.
2 Timothy 1:7 (NLT)
For God has not given us a spirit of fear and timidity, but of power, love, and self-discipline.
Per this verse, I’m not the source of my own self-discipline. It comes from God.
Now that’s something to think about.
It’s not only the motivation of the one punishing. The attitude of the one being disciplined opens the path to punishment.
This Scripture refers to God’s Word and His people. Discipline wasn’t working.
Zechariah 7:11, 13 (ESV)
But they refused to pay attention and turned a stubborn shoulder and stopped their ears that they might not hear … “As I called, and they would not hear, so they called, and I would not hear,” says the Lord of hosts.
Their bad attitude bought them punishment (exile), not freedom. In the end, God got their attention. 
This week’s discussion is on discipline and punishment. What’s the difference?
Let’s start with motive:
Love is the motivation behind discipline:
Proverbs 3:12 (NET)
For the Lord disciplines those he loves, just as a father disciplines the son in whom he delights.
Loving discipline may involve punishment. But not all punishment is motivated by love.
Ecclesiastes 7:9
Do not let yourself be quickly provoked, for anger resides in the lap of fools.
Punishment motivated by anger is foolishness.