No question, some people have bad parents. And some folks assume that those children are destined to repeat the sins of their parents:
Numbers 14:18 (MSG)
God, slow to get angry and huge in loyal love, forgiving iniquity and rebellion and sin; Still, never just whitewashing sin. But extending the fallout of parents’ sins to children into the third, even the fourth generation.
If you were abused by your father, you carry scars on your soul. Likely your father and his father carried similar scars. But you are not without hope.